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Subject: Re: Hope for another baby

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KALA TATE
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08/21/2007 12:29 PM Alert 
This is my first time on-line posting things about my loss. However, here I go, I lost my baby about two years this October. It wouldve been my first child I was so excited and Im pretty sure alot of you guys already know the emotions you expereince when you find out you are. My fiancee and I was escatic. during one of my routine check-ups and my first ultrasound something went wrong, they could no longer find a heart beat for my baby which we also found out that day was a boy. it just all happened so fast and went down hill from there. I lost the baby and had to carry around my baby for a month because they wanted it to pass naturally however it still did not so they prescribed me some pills to help me pass the baby on through. I went through alot of things which in turn helped me become more spirtual. To this day I am the same way more spirtually inclinded than I ever thought I would become. I would love it if you could just pray for me and my fiancee Jeffery to have another baby, we would love to become parents again to a healthy baby boy/girl/both would be even better. We have so much love to give and are just praying to god to heal my body so that i can once again become a mother. please send up a prayer and keep me in your prayers (Kala and Jeffery). thanks so much. feel free to reply also
Ulizabeth Walker
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08/21/2007 7:30 PM Alert 
Kala,
I am sorry for your loss. Losing your first is hard and it does bring you either face to face with God or turns you totally away. I understand what you are going through and please know you are not alone. If you live in the dallas area you should come to the infertility group, it is a blessing. Please know God has not forgotten you and Jeff.

I will pray for you'll to receive a special blessing from heaven

Liz Walker
Kelly Godinez
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08/24/2007 7:44 AM Alert 
Hello Kala,

I am very sorry about your loss. I am sorry you were forced to carry your baby for a month knowing he had passed away. You are a very strong person and sound very loving. I will pray for you and your fiancee.

My husband and I lost our son on 8/3/07 to trisomy 18. We had been trying for 3 years to have a baby, so we are going through a hard time right now. Please pray for us too.

Love,

Kelly

Mommy to Serafin 6/18/07 - 8/3/07
Melissa Stephens
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08/26/2007 11:30 AM Alert 
Kala, I'm terribly sorry for your loss. How far along were you? Did you ever find out what went wrong with the pregnancy? I carried my David for a week after he had passed, but I can't imagine doing that for a month! Did you name your son?

Sorry for all the questions!


Melissa
wife to Rob
mommy to:
David, my 1st angel in heaven - born still October 23, 2003
C.J., my angel on earth - Sept. 29, 2005
Baby Stephens, my 2nd angel in heaven - June 30, 2008
Stanley, my fur-baby - miniature schnauzer, 4 years old
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