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shan j

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Posts: 72

10/07/2008 7:55 PM	Alert
Hello all its been a long time since I've written. I have been so busy moving and things like that. Well I just got discharged from the hospital. I had to have an emergency c-section to remove an ectopic pregnancy and my right fallopian tube around 5am Saturday morning. I am in so much pain right now. I didn't even know I was pregnant. 6 weeks to be exact. So now I have a incision from one side of my body to the other. They tried to do the small cuts first but the baby was too big. They even showed me the surgical pictures like I really wanted to see what I lost. I guess I can change my tag line to 6 angels in heaven. I feel like hitting something or someone. I am trying to not to give up but now I really feel like less of a woman. I can't even do what God put me on this earth to do "Reproduce". Now I don't even have all of my womanly parts. I wanna scream....Dang WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Shan Mother to 5 Angels in Heaven

Sharon G

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Posts: 217

10/08/2008 4:32 PM	Alert
Shan, I am so sorry that this happened to you. No one deserves what you have been through. I will pray for healing and that your physical pain subsides very soon. I know the emotional pain will take much longer. It's probably too early to talk about it, but have you ever considered IVF? It takes the fallopian tubes out of the equation. I'm not sure if you have a reason for the miscarriages. I also know that you were living in another country. Just know that we are all praying for you. I was so glad to see your post and then sad to read it. You are such a strong woman.

Sharon G Mother to two angels - Drew (S/B 12-07) & Baby G (M/C 09-08)

katrina caines
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10/08/2008 6:33 PM	Alert
Hang in there Shan you are no less of a woman. It seems life isnt fair and we cant help but ask god why. I have you in my prayers. Get better emotionaly and physicaly then when your ready try again its not too late. and your not alone.

Trina C.

shan j

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Posts: 72

10/15/2008 6:19 PM	Alert
Thanks for your response. I got for f/u on Monday and then I will make the decision on whether I want to continue trying.

Shan Mother to 5 Angels in Heaven

Debby Shulman

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Posts: 14

10/16/2008 3:11 PM	Alert
HI Shan I am so sorry for your loss. I cant imagine what you are going through. Have they ever run any test on you to figure out why you are having so many miscarriages? Debby

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